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Why it took me a long time to realize I was aromantic & asexual…

…and why it’s good to normalize trying labels on. (original twitter thread) My first introduction to the term asexual as it relates to orientation was in early 2010s via the Sherlock fandom. For those of you who didn’t have the misfortune of being in the fandom (look I enjoyed parts of it but there wasContinue reading “Why it took me a long time to realize I was aromantic & asexual…”

Talking About Ourselves: How Your Words Are Hurting Our Community (Part 2)

cw: aphobia, rape culture I Am Not Your Get Out of Flirting Free Card Stop using your aspec identity in lieu of no. Yes, I’m making a demand. Why? Because every time someone answers “Can I buy you a drink?” with “I’m aromantic,” you’re feeding into stereotypes and, you guessed it, hurting the rest ofContinue reading “Talking About Ourselves: How Your Words Are Hurting Our Community (Part 2)”

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Heya! I’m Zan, an agender aroace. I write queer fantasy. Not yet published, but working on it! I’m here to talk about queerness, writing, and queer writing.

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